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Time to Make a Change

Do you ever look back and wish there were things you could change? I’m sure we’ve all been there at one time or another.

2018 is a blur for me. I was caught up in the write more/ write faster hampster wheel and took the things that are the most important for granted. I wrote and published six books and participated in twelve box sets and book bites.

I’m so proud of these accomplishments, but they came at a steep cost.

Time.

Time to spend with those important in my life. My daughter and grandson, who moved across the country in August. My husband, who works nights and therefore has limited daylight hours awake. My mom, who lives next door. My cat and dog, who would appreciate a little one-on-one time. My overflowing Kindle, filled with stories I’ve yet to read. My garden, that got by mostly by luck and little care last year. My family back home, who I rarely call. My friends, whose lives I’ve lost touch with.

A couple of months ago, I lost a relationship with an online book promoter who I’d considered a friend. Her reasoning: I hadn’t remained in contact with her. This hurt more than probably warranted, but it also served as a wakeup call.

Time is a precious commodity for all of us. We can’t afford to waste it, even if we are chasing our dreams. The cost may be more than you want to pay. One of my critique partners lost her husband not long ago. A friend lost her husband and her father this year, while another had a stroke on Boxing Day. These are all signs telling me life is precious, don’t waste a single moment.

I’m making 2019 my year to slow down.

I’m going to spend less time worrying and more with enjoying life and what a true blessing it is.

Instead of a resolution, I’ve picked a word to live up to: BREATHE

Do you have a word to inspire change?

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40 Comments

  1. Hugh's Views and News

    I totally agree with what you’re saying in this post, Jacquie. I’ve just come back from a blogging and writing break which has taught me much of what you have said in this post. I spent Christmas and the festive period with family and friends instead of being on the computer. I had a wonderful time and it’s taught me to slow down and to spend more time on the other parts of my life which I ignored. I feel refreshed and like as if I have turned a new corner.
    Well done of grabbing hold of what faced you and choosing to change. Enjoy the extra time with your family and friends and doing other stuff outside of the blogging and writing worlds. I’m sure you’ll enjoy everything a whole lot better.
    Happy New Year.

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    1. Jacquie Biggar

      That’s it exactly, Hugh. I’ve been ignoring the people who are the most important in my life. It’s a sad fact that writing and everything it encompasses comes with a huge price tag.
      I love my career, but I need to find a balance before it’s too late. {{hugs}} and Happy New Year.

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  2. Mary J. McCoy-Dressel

    I wonder if someone gives lessons on how to slow down. I believe the key is to BREATHE. A fantastic word and goal. I’m amazed at what you’ve accomplished this year. Congratulations. My wake-up call was at the beginning of the 2018, but how soon I forgot once things cleared up. Enjoy your slow-down, Jacquie. This is a great reminder to stop to breathe and to remember how important family and friends are to us. Thank you. Cheers to a brand-new beginning.

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  3. D.L Finn, Author

    It is so hard to find that balance. I’m working on that, too. Breathe is a good word to start off the year and there is so much to enjoy in such a limited time. Happy New Year:)

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  4. Mae Clair

    Jacquie, I was amazed throughout 2018 by all the books you produced and the booksets you participated in, but I applaud your decision to step back and slow down. Finding a balance between writing and publishing and devoting time to ourselves and family is a difficult line to tread. I wish you a happy and healthy 2019!

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  5. tidalscribe

    I am guilty of ignoring the telephone. It’s so easy to message people, send pictures, enjoy group amily chats, while following blogs etc – all sitting at my desk, forgetting that not everybody is on line or wants to be and many still enjoy the old fashioned telephone call.

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  6. Jodie Esch

    Hi Jacquie,

    I totally appreciated the honesty of your post. You certainly worked very hard last year and your out-put is beyond impressive. You are amazing!

    Now, as you are stating – time to slow down and reflect on your good fortune and enjoy your family and friends. I think that your goals/intentions are very sound.

    All the best in 2019 in achieving more relaxation.

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    1. Jacquie Biggar

      Thank you, Jodie! I love the challenges inherent in this business, but not at the cost of sacrificing my family. Time to regroup.
      Hope you’re enjoying that wonderful weather, it’s raining cats and dogs here, lol

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  7. Beware Of The Reader

    Well Jacquie as you may have seen in my post my goal is exactly the same! Slow down, live in the moment more often. I don’t write books but my pressure outside work came among other from ARCs so I’ve decided to tone it down and have more room to read moody reads, without a schedule. Also participate in my weekly meme IF I have the time and energy. I love them but sometimes it adds pressure and I just want them to stay fun, as they should. Good luck with your goals!

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