He’s Still the One #Anniversary #FamilyFirst

35th Anniversary!

Hard to imagine it’s been thirty-five years since DH and I said the big “I do” and began what would be a journey together filled with love, laughter, and yes, tears.

I remember being a nervous wreck that day. No one mentioned how stressful it is to plan a wedding- thank goodness I had the strong support of my family to help!


The day dawned sunny and bright (a good omen) and soon Mom and Dad’s was a flurry of activity. My bridesmaids looked beautiful in their pale pink dresses and I felt like a princess in my Cinderella gown.

There was a moment, pulling up to the church, when I was certain he wouldn’t show. I had to bite my tongue against begging Dad to take me home- I’m glad I didn’t!


I’m not sure who shook worse walking down the aisle, Dad or me 🙂


DH cried when he placed the ring on my finger.


My brother, best man. Sister-in-law, maid of honor. Me and DH. My cousin, bridesmaid, close friend, best man.


It was surreal. Was I dreaming?

At the park for pictures. In front; my youngest brother, ring bearer. DH’s niece, flower girl.


We did it! Married. The word invoked feelings of comfort and sheer joy. Time to celebrate!

Grandma made our wedding cake, isn’t it beautiful?


Mom and Dad (I miss him so!)


Dancing with my new father-in-law- miss him, too!


I won’t lie and say it’s been easy. DH and I are both hot-heads (he’s Scottish and a redhead, I’m French- need I say more, lol) but we took our vows seriously and worked through the issues and gradually they became fewer and farther between.

We’ve mellowed with age and melded our tastes into compromises that work for us. We’re best friends, lovers, parents and grandparents. The momentary fear I had on that Saturday so long ago was unfounded.

When you find ‘the one’, your soulmate, it’s worth taking a chance on love.

True love doesn’t happen right away; it’s an ever-growing process. It develops after you’ve gone through many ups and downs, when you’ve suffered together, cried together, laughed together.

Ricardo Montalban

JACQUIE BIGGAR  is a USA Today bestselling author of Romance who writes about smart, sassy females and tough, alpha males who learn the true power is love. Free reads, excerpts, author news, and contests can be found on her web site: http://jacqbiggar.com You can follow her on at http://Facebook.com/jacqbiggar, http://Twitter.com/jacqbiggar Or email her via her web site. Jacquie lives on Vancouver Island with her husband and loves to hear from readers all over the world!

76 comments on “He’s Still the One #Anniversary #FamilyFirst

  1. So beautiful Jacquie… Thank you for sharing this important of your life with us. 35 years… Wow.. Simply amazing.. Congratulations and god bless.

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  2. Happy Anniversary ! ♥

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  3. Happy Anniversary – we’re 42 years married and Cyberspouse is Scottish. Having fun is more important than working at marriage! Can’t believe our eldest will be forty this yearwhen we still haven’t grown up!

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  4. Congratulations Jacqui. Thank you for sharing. May you and Robert have another 35 healthy & happy years together. 🌺❤️

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  5. Aw, Jacquie, this is so sweet. Thanks for sharing memories of your special day. Happy Anniversary! ❤

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  6. What a beautiful day, Jacquie. It is so nice to be able to share in your happiness. Thank you for this uplifting post.

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  7. You looked so beautiful, Jacquie. I love that hat. Your husby looks awed, like he won the lottery.

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  8. This is a lovely post, Jacquie. I really did enjoy your wedding photographs and reading about your great day.

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  9. Hi Jacquie, this is a beautiful post. Loved the photos and your sharing the emotions of the day. Congrats and best wishes for many more years together!!

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  10. Happy Anniversary, Jacquie! This is so beautiful! A beautiful bride, beautiful pictures, a handsome groom, tons of love seen in all the pictures, your loving advice there at the end, I just love it all! You are an inspiration to me at just ten years married. ♥️ All best wishes always for many more years of love and happiness together!

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    • Thank you so much, Jennifer! My best advice to married couples is to embrace the differences. So many try to change their spouses (yes, even me) and all it accomplishes is dissent.
      DH drives me crazy with his messiness, but at the end of the day, does it really matter? He also makes me laugh even on my lowest lows and his hug fills my heart and soul with love- that’s what counts.
      Wishing you and your hubby many years of hugs, my friend ❤

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  11. What a sweet post Jacquie! Lovely memories and fabulous pictures! Happy Anniversary to the handsome couple. Wishing you many many more.

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  12. Many congratulations. May the obviously happy union continue, Jacquie. Lovely, happy pictures of a wonderful day. xx

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  13. Congratulations! So lovely to see such longevity. Great pictures too.

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  14. Lovely memories, Jacquie! Thanks for sharing them, and happy anniversary!

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  15. What a beautiful post Jacquie. Wishing you both many blessings on your anniversary.

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  16. Happy Anniversary, Jacquie! What a beautiful reflection on what looked to be a lovely day and what is surely a wonderful marriage. (And a heartfelt tribute to both fathers, too.)

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  17. This is so precious, Jacquie! Happy Anniversary to you and your hubby! Much to celebrate and give thanks for. Cheers to you both! 🙂

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  18. Beware Of The Reader

    OMG Jacquie there is so much that I love about this post but first: Happy Anniversary! I love the dresses and suits (reminds me of my youth), I love your explanation about it not being a smooth ride (Je ne savais pas que tu étais française!) and I love that last quote which is so true!

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    • Hi Sophie,
      Thank you so much! I’m reminded of the old Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis song- Side by Side- when it comes to our marriage. 🙂


  19. Happy anniversary, Jacquie. What lovely memories! Thanks for sharing them with us! To many more years of happiness to come for your husband and you! ♥

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  20. Happy Anniversary Jacquie and wishing you many more happy years. The photographs are wonderful and the memories precious.. ♥

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  21. Happy Anniversary, Jacquie and many more happy years, good health and laughter…Such beautiful memories 🙂 x

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  22. Sigh…so sweet and romantic! Congratulations and many, many more happy years together!💕

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  23. What a beautiful wedding Jacquie, and you guys looked so young. What a lovely tribute for your anniversary. I wish you guys many more. ❤

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  24. So lovely is this share Jacquie! You are beautiful today inside and out just as when you were s new bride! I hope you’ve had a wonderful week!

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  25. D.L. Finn, Author

    Happy 35th Wedding Anniversary, Jacquie! I loved all your pictures and memories. What a beautiful bride you were!

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  26. Thanks for sharing this beautiful story. Congratulations on your 35th!

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  27. I’m sorry to be so late to the party, Jacquie. I love, love, love these photos! Thanks for letting us stroll down memory lane with you. Belated wishes for a very happy anniversary. Hugs!

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  28. antonia_

    Love this post! Also happy anniversary!

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